H-14 to the Engagement Day
Every woman has no idea to describe her feeling about how happy she is to welcome the day when a man ask her to marry him.
So do I,
As a Bridezilla,
I can’t get any words to explain how wonderful feeling is
I know it will be different after the day
And will be more different after the wedding day
But all of the wishes, I have one wish
Every change will be better and happier
Counting the days…
I’ll share the preparation!
Moments in 2013, December 29th :
ENGAGEMENT DAY
A formal agreement to get married. Two persons commit to be married, keep the faith each other and in this day will be a moment to introduce each family member, because in a wedding, not only the two persons relationship but also the family’s relationship.
1. Seserahan / Gift
Seserahan is my favorite things! All bridezilla will definitely agree on this ... including me! Why? Because all of the things woman ask for it will be lawful in the eyes of prospective husband and his family ... it will almost granted to be given without any rejection!
Meaning of seserahan is a symbol that the man could be responsible and able to meet the future needs of his wife. Thus, in addition to the contents of seserahan is basic needs, or food items are also inserted into the symbol of the seriousness of the groom to love and cherish his bride. Seserahan usually made for an odd number, can be 3, 5, 7, 9. Then the bride-to-be also give the seserahan to reply it for the groom-to-be include the needs of him.
2. Ceremonial Schedule
The ceremonial will be tightly running by the time, so we must concerned about the run down of the agenda to make it good arranged
Ceremonial Schedule :
1 . Families of bride-to-be welcoming the groom-to-be's family
2 . The opening ceremony by the MC and praying together
3 . Groom-to-be's family express the purpose of their coming ( represented by delegates from the groom-to-be )
4 . Families of bride-to-be welcome reception and the arrival of the groom-to-be family provides the answer to the proposal
5 . Symbolic handover by the groom-to-be's mother to mother of bride-to-be .
After that , also submitted replies to the groom-to-be
6 . The ring exchange ( If the event will be held mounting ring then groom-to-be will paired by the
bride-to-be's mother and vice versa )
7 . Introduction of the whole family member
8 . Furthermore , the MC will announce a little grating about weddings : the date and the location where and expect the blessing of all who attend .
9 . Prayer is the closing event of application to the end that all went well until the day of the wedding takes place .
10 . Closing by MC and lunch
3. Tent and Decoration
Tent is a part of decoration to cover the front part of house, so that can accommodate the guest. About the decoration is just concern about the lay out of the chairs, table and catering tools, manage the space well.
4. Catering
Yummy catering for closing the day, spoiling the family member and the guest to have a nice lunch!
5. Dresscode
The outfit will be more great when it be matched for the bride-to-be and groom-to-be, then Kebaya and Batik are the best choice to show that this moment is a special moment.
-With Love-